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A wedding is not solely owned by the bride and groom. The parents of the couples as the celebrants usually have certain expectations. When both family members insist their opinions, the couple is in a dilemma. When receiving opinions from parents of both parties, the couple can communicate with their own parents but without making any judgment initiatively and listen to their underlying reasons first. For instance, the ideas perhaps originate from their past experiences, expectation towards the couple and in-laws, as well as reference of the practices of relatives and friends. Afterwards, you can discuss with your partner and see if any possible adjustment could be made to address parent’s expectations.
The goal of communication is to reach consensus. However, the expectations of both parents cannot be satisfied due to various limitations and considerations. The couple is recommended to express their understanding and let the parents know their difficulties. Communicating in a respectful and peaceful manner is always key to a good relationship. A wedding is just the beginning of union of two families. The most important thing is getting along with both parties harmoniously.
Sources: Ms. Lai, Social Worker (Family Service), Hong Kong Family Welfare Society
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