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Social issue has triggered conflicts and disturbances in the society for several months. There are conflicts, accusations and relationships break down among family members because of each holds different political view. That would ultimately affect family relationships and create different levels of tensions. Some of the couples’ relationships have been eroded and they feel alone and hopeless.
I appreciate that you have discussed with your husband on this sensitive issue. Though he holds different political views, he still maintains good communication with you. However, when facing difficulties and avoiding to disrupt relationships, you have no longer discussed this issue and felt depressed. To put this into another perspective, there are many ways out. Marriage is not just linking two people together and it needs acceptance of the mutual differences. It is very natural that your another half holding different values and viewpoints. However, don’t associate the “differences” with something right or wrong and leave your half with different views alone.
Couples can avoid discussing the issue for a while can help ease the tensions temporarily. However, it will affect the relationships in the long run and only positive communication can foster intimate relationships. You can try the following ways:
Please consider visiting the Integrated Family Service Centre and calling social workers for help and access relevant social resources for support if needed.
Source: Ms. Lok, Social Work Consultant, Hong Kong Family Welfare Society
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